Holiday weeknd food for thought...

1) Dont spend your time comparing your wrongs when you should spend 
your time repairing them.. don't believe for a second that your cant live
just b/c you made a mistake.. repair then live life...DONT DO IT AGAIN! lol

2) Starting something you don't want to start will end something you 
didn't  want to end....think about it....

What you need...

He asked me to be real with him and i asked him the same.. so i gave him some real, just a little bit to see how he can handle it, you cant go all in at one time and over whelm a person. so i gave him a lil bit, just a taste, just the R in real. He could not handle it and i came to this conclusion;

"Real is what you want but fake is what you need, cant feed a baby steak"......

No, you don't ...

You want me but you never call..never text..never set aside time..never respond... No smoke signals, waves, wink, head nod, hand shake, Obama fist bump, chest bump, smack on the ass, secret 5 min Hand shake, no hi, hey, what's up, what's good, hey hey hey's,nothing?You don't want me...don't say u want me,  

save that for your Girl..

Rip it off...

So your looking at the outside... will you like the guy with the pretty skin...the guys whos taller.. the guy with more money...you need to bypass that and rip of the skin, focus on the inside. The outside appearance will get you caught up in something you could of avoided

The Deception of Perception...

People say Perception is reality..this is bull shit! Perception as reality is being lazy and allowing yourself to live in an imaginary world you created b/c your to lazy to find out the truth! you see a pic of your dude and some chick..if you follow the perception as reality tip then you automatically KNOW your dude is cheating and you run with it. No questions not nothing, that's just the way it is because perception is reality to you. in your imaginary world where u live next to the tooth fairy and ride a hippo to work ur A looser and your boo is a cheater.. No your just lazy... If people wouldn't be so scared to ask questions in a blunt matter all problems can be solved and all questions answered..  May i be blunt???

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Like a Sad kid Loves Cake..oo00

Ladies please treat bull shit for what it is and don't use are god given gift of persuasion against yourself in to thinking its birthday cake... taste is one thing you can't persuade by then it might be to late..the damage has been done and recorded.. No madder how good and icing filled you make that "cake" look or how hungry you are.. just put it down... HAPPY FRIDAY!!

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Nothing but you...

   Lauryn hill has a song called nothing even matters...and at the end her and the male lead sing "nothing but you" over and over again.. In the content of the song they are talking about the opposite sex but I look at it as talking to the same sex... Yourself! Haha... But at the end of the day if your in a relationship or not, nothing matters but YOU.. if you don't take care of yourself and love yourself no-one else is.. And if they do care about you, knowing you don't give two ish about yourself they are doing it for the wrong reasons.. To have control over you or to use you.. C.Y.A applies to every aspect of your life.. Cover your ass! Then you can worry about someone else's

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Str8 to the end....

Ladies, we will be in the very beginning of a relationship and automatically jump to the end. One person may think 50 years down the line where you have been married for years and don't speak, don't have sex,don't go out. Another person goes right to the breakup,the cheat,the heart break. Their is no guarantee this is going to happen or not happen. Love and learning is all a leap of Faith. Hurt only last for a moment but a " what if" can last a life time
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